Judgment

Posted on 21:10:00 by Livi Gerbase | 1 scraps

Today, I wanna talk about flaw I have and that I’m ashamed of: I, sometimes, judge by appearance, and that first impression stays for a long time, even if I talk with that person after. However, I want to defend myself. I think that the look of a person, the way he/she dresses like may tell a lot about a personality (or a lack of it). Of course it doesn’t say everything, and it’s not right to make false conclusions by only the way a person is dressed, but some first impressions of mine were right, and that’s what I’m going to talk about.
Nobody can deny that judgment, sometimes, is necessary. For an example, it can protect you from getting robbed or stolen.But how far can we go judging people by their first looks? I think everybody has already made mistakes because they were too worried about security. How can we tell who are the good and who are the bad guys by looking at them?
Unfortunately, nowadays, with globalization and lack of personality, everybody dresses the same. Then, how can we judge by appearance people who dress the same as everybody else? Or even people who dresses different? If that ‘different look’ was in, everybody would use it! Maybe, in the new future, people will use that awkward outfit, nobody can tell.
To sum up, we can’t judge, but, sometimes, we must. (?) You were right, Einstein, everything’s relative, even good judgment. It’s up to us to realize which is necessary and which can block us from knowing the reality.

The blog is giving me problems. I can change neither the place of the text nor the spaces between paragraphs. :) Bye!

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Blue Ribbon Family disse...

I think judgement isnt a good thing. I have had a lot of it on me in my life because of my physical appearance, and people dont even try to get to know me because of it. I like dressing nice, and taking care of myself. But, it is hard to have people pass a judgement on me when they dont know what is going on in my life and why I am the way I am, or dressing the way I am... But, saying all of this doesnt mean that I dont pass judgement. I think there is something called "righteous judgement" and that is something that you use to make a decision if something is right or wrong for you, or your loved ones. Sometimes we have to make judgement calls... it is a part of life.